Who I Am
What is the secret formula to having a great relationship and why doesn’t everybody know it?
Our relationship struck a BIG rock when we struggles to have children and years of fertility treatment didn’t work. We really had to dig deep and learn not to allow resentment, blame, disappointment, sadness and feeling cheated take over our lives. We were both so disappointed and sometimes really struggled to communicate and support each other. I learned a lot about what it takes to keep a loving relationship from being badly damaged and actually making it better than it was when we started out together. I use what I learned every day especially with my husband but in all my relationships.
My curiosity about relationship started when I was much younger. Growing up in a large family and amongst what seemed like an endless number of grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins there were many different types of relationship to study and learn from.
As I grew up I was always aware of my relationship with others and the different types of relationships I was involved in. The parent /child, the sibling, the friendship, teacher/pupil etc.
No two relationships were the same and the dynamic in every relationship was different and changed with events that occurred in our lives, outside influences, media, new friends, growing up and maturing and many other things often small and subtle things that go unnoticed by most people.
As I grew up I saw family, relations, friends, neighbours etc. having disputes and disagreements over the most serious and the most trivial of things. Some of the relationships survived, others didn’t.
Without consciously being aware of it my career naturally took the path where I was closely involved in developing and supporting relationship. I have spent over 25 years working with teams, senior management and clients nurturing, growing and often rescuing relationships that have wrong.
I get how relationships work and know that the root cause of the relationship issues are often much deeper that the visible symptom’s may display.
Over the years I became the “Go to Person” with family, friends, and even work colleagues when they were experiencing personal relationship issues. Some of my friends call me the “Relationship Doctor”. So when I realized my true calling in life …coaching… it made total sense to me that this was what I wanted to do…forever. I got my coaching qualification and learned everything I could about relationship.
- I now work exclusively with women to get their Great Relationships Gone Wrong back on track and better than ever.
- I am passionate about helping women (like you) to create and have better relationships
- I will show you how to bring relaxation and fun back into your life
- You can stop feeling your life is spiraling out of control
- Stop blaming yourself for everything that goes wrong
- Recognise your successes and be proud of them and yourself.
- Once you can see how great you are you are going to really love yourself and think everybody wants to be just like you Yippee!!
