Are you a Victim, a Critic, or a Partner in your Relationship and in your Life
The Partner
Partners are equal. They have equal rights, are equally responsible, equal share, and equal say. That doesn’t necessarily mean that you end up dividing every role and job 50:50. In a lot of relationships each partner takes on responsibility for particular roles such are paying the bills, maintaining the cars, cutting the lawn, doing the laundry and so on. Working partners come together as equals to discuss decisions, problems, ideas and ways of doing things.
8 Things you can do to be a Partner in your relationship
- Acknowledge your partners and say thank you and show gratitude for the efforts they make. Gratitude makes you aware of all the really great things you have in your life
- Have fun together, playfulness keeps your love for each other growing
- Accept that you won’t always agree on everything you will probably fight over many things, but when the argument is over, always try to work together to find a solution that you can both be happy with.
- Be honest with your partner and let them know what you need and how you feel, this will build trust and understanding and love
- Realise that everything you and your partner do affects the other person in either a positive or negative way. Try as much as you possibly can to make sure the affect is positive as this will grow your love for each other.
- Be kind to yourself and take care of yourself, if you don’t take care of yourself, how can you expect to take care of others?
- Realise that every choice and decision you make will affects not just you but both of you and act accordingly
- Appreciate that some things are more important to you than they are to your partner (and visa versa) and respect that.
If you feel you are not a partner in your relationship or you want to be a better partner then click here and book your FREE Relationship Remedy call and together we can explore how you can be the best partner and have the best partner to create a relationship that without question you want to be in.
